Wed, 03 Oct 2001, Reader writes:
I feel kind of strange writing about this. I wonder if my guardian angels are dismayed by the fact that I requested a money spell; to win a big prize in the lottery to pay off those legalized loan sharks who put out credit cards. I got into a business with my brother and so many times he would be short of points to bring him to the next level. I have so much trouble relating to people and I got frustrated. I overbought things I really didn't need just to push him over the edge. I got into a real mess.
About two years ago, a former co-worker of mine called me and asked if I could put her resume with my company. She said that, the anti-inflammatory medicine she was on compromised her immune system, making an office environment untolerable. She said that she had been denied disability because they didn't consider it a permanent injury. She said that she had been denied housing assistance because of her high rent.
She told me that nobody else was helping her. I didn't think she could survive on the street but I didn't have much to let her borrow. I borrowed money from credit cards to help her keep afloat. I thought it was going to be a few months. It has turned into over two years and she is still not back to work. She began to get on my back about praying. I did start to pray more since I wanted a better relationship with God. Every time I complain, she says that my complaints and not trusting in Jesus are making her produce stress hormones and slowing her healing.
I don't know what the truth is. I have been patronized and lied to by so many women that I don't know when a woman is telling me the truth. Is her right leg seriously injured? Is her liver stressed? Does she have angels around her helping her heal? Is anyone in the next six months going to give her a damn break and let her work from home. I am sick of being her sugar daddy. It is totally asinine that nobody will let her work from home. I can do anything at home that I can do at work, albeit slower. Is she just using religion to guilt me out of money?
I just got so sick and tired of paying most of my check to those legalized loan shark that I requested a money spell. I want to use the business to do good works but appealing to people is like pulling teeth. I am afraid to go into a church for fear of bursting into flames. I am afraid that by accepting this spell that I am rejecting a blessing from God that will be a permanent solution to my money problems. Let me know what you find. I don't have the money to hire a private detective so you're the closest I can get.
Wed, 10 Oct 2001, Otherplane's reply to reader:
We do believe that there is good in everyone, however, there are the 1 percent (of people), who go above and beyond. The problem is... "There has to be a limit" as to what is acceptable for each individual (and you are included). Each individual must set that limit and when that limit is at hand, then the only recourse is to say, "Sorry, I cannot help you further". One should not feel bad that they had to say no... because that individual knows that they did their best, and still, it just wasn't enough. The individual should not extend themselves beyond their limits and thus put themselves (financially) in jeopardy. Even to the point of having to turn-away a family member, if need be. To think or assume that they would do the same for you (in time of need), is foolish thought... that has no guarantee to it.
We have tried to get our "friend" to help us pick Lotto numbers... the answer was "No". We also wanted to be financially secure and able to help others with the money. In the end, we came to understand that... "If we cannot help ourselves, no one else can - we can only help to a certain point and then, we are again left alone to find our way". If all guardian angels had to do was make everyone financially secure, then why have money? Why have guardian angels... for that matter? God should just have us all born financially secure... that way no one would have money problems and could go on with their lives, without worry of being poor/broke.
Hopefully, one can and does learn from an experience (such as you have mentioned). You have reached and passed your limit and it is time to "put your foot down" and say, "No More". Remember, this woman is not your wife... having a kind heart and being a kind and helpful person is admirable but then again, there still must be a limit... or it is you who will suffer the most (in the end). Not only mentally, but physically. Having any kind of personal feelings for this woman is one thing, but does she also share the same feelings for you. Even if you were married, each is still an individual and each do have a "limit" on things. Put an end to it and walk away... with your head held high knowing that you did do your best - and feel good about yourself.
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