Fri, 05 Jun 98, Reader writes:
In August my sister-in-law died after suffering for several years of cancer. We all knew she wasn't doing too well, and would not be here much longer. The day before she died we all went down there, (from Maine to New Hampshire) to visit her in the hospital. When we left that day, you could tell she was bad off. The next morning when we called we were told that she was still the same, not to hurry, but to make sure we came. I had a feeling of desperation to get there, and the car ride seemed alot longer than it really was.
When we went into the room there were several people in there, none of them were talking to her, but to each other. I went over to her to tell her that we were there. She put her head up (she was laying on her side), looked me in the face, and started moving her mouth as though to tell me something. When I told her I couldn't understand her, to slow down, she got frantic trying to tell me whatever she wanted to tell me. Her mouth was moving really fast, and there was a noise coming out, but not words.
When she started doing this, someone went and got her nurse, who came in and gave her medications to 'calm her down' telling me that I would be able to talk to her 'later'. Later never came. The medications made her comfortable but either she was too tired or too weak to ever speak to me again. She died about 1 1/2 later.
This has driven me crazy since it happened. She had so much determination to tell me whatever she was trying to say. The days prior to this she had no energy much less enough to lift her head up and try to talk. And then the one time she wants to speak, it is, or appears to be to me, and I don't get it. Any ideas? I'm not sure this is something you can advise me in, but I hope so. I have been beating my head against a wall ever since this happened. Thanks in advance, and I'll look forward to hearing from you.
Fri, 05 Jun 98, Otherplane's reply to reader:
The dying wish is mostly for the living and not for the dying. She knew her time was up and she was just trying to tell you not to worry. She was right because she went to heaven. Her worry is over...no more pain and suffering for her and for the people that she left behind.
Let it go, for that was yesterday and at that moment of time, it is really 'out of your hands'. She was happy to see familiar faces before her departure and you made it happen for her. That is worth a lot for her.
Fri, 05 Jun 98, Reader writes:
If these people that have already died, have choosen to stay around their living friends/relatives, for whatever reason, how can it be of any help, or gratifying if no one can see them or no one knows they are there? It would seem to me that they would want to communicate, and that communicating would be more frequent, and a little easier.
Fri, 05 Jun 98, Otherplane's reply to reader:
When we die three things can happen. To be earthbound for one reason or another; to go straight to heaven as we call it; or choose not to go to heaven because of whatever reason it may be. While staying earthbound, the entities will realize that the line of communication is not trully there for them to use. The perception of the living is that all the entities can do whatever they want to do..to the living. But it's simply not the truth. Like us, not all of us can sky dive or play basketball. It's the same with them (entities). If it so happens that they have that ability, then the second problem is how receptive is the other side...meaning us. They can't even see you or see the other entities amongst them.
To see, to feel, and or communicate with the entities takes a little bit more than a average human must have.
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