Sun, 23 Aug 98, Reader writes:
Hi, I have a question that has been burning inside of me since the end of January. My Best friend Killed himself in January of this year and it has been very difficult for me to handle. We had not seen each other in about 2 years, although I know if I called him up and needed somthing from him, he would have given it to me. He always protected me whenever trouble was around and to be honest, I knew he was my soul mate. I didn't learn of his death until the day of the funeral and I was unable to make it. I have had dreams every single night about him. I know all the details (where we were at and all the conversations in them). It's not the same dream every night but every night it is about him. And in every dream, he is either going to die or he already has. Now here is the hard part, my last dream was of him and I driving the car with him in it and he told me that he had to go away. I begged him not to because I didn't know if I could handle it. He reassured me that someone else would take his place and that person would treat me EXACTLY the way he did.
After that dream there have been no more. The dreams lasted for 4 months straight. I am also going through a difficult time in my marriage and I'm worried that this may be a dream that my mind can think I'm not supposed to be with my husband. I just don't know. All I do know is that I have now had 3 people close to me die of suicide and 2 more have died of an accident. I lost my great grandfather about 3 years ago also. I'm am very tired of people I love dying, but of all the deaths, this one that I have told you about has been the hardest. I need him to know that I love him and I'm not sure that he will ever know. Thank you so much for your time and please if you have any insight for me, I would love to hear it, you are my last resort.
Thu, 27 Aug 98, Otherplane's reply to reader:
Less than half of your dreams were energized by him and the rest or in between those occurrences, was caused by your subconscious lingering to the previous dream. At times we normally will not realize the importance of things and or friends until the time that we no longer have it or them. And your interpretion of your last dream could be true or close to be a true statement, but that can very well change based on the decision that you will make in the future.
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